lib: migrate process.binding to internalBinding

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23517
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Jeremiah Senkpiel <fishrock123@rocketmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>

lib/internal/process/esm_loader.js

@@ -48,7 +48,7 @@ exports.ESMLoader = undefined;
 exports.setup = function() {
   let ESMLoader = new Loader();
   const loaderPromise = (async () => {
-    const userLoader = process.binding('config').userLoader;
+    const userLoader = internalBinding('options').getOptions('--loader');
     if (userLoader) {
       const hooks = await ESMLoader.import(
         userLoader, pathToFileURL(`${process.cwd()}/`).href);